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Resources

A starting point for everyone.

Whether you are looking to support somebody else, or you are exploring your own gender identity, here are some resources which will help you understand what being transgender is all about. It's okay if you don't know everything yet, or if some terms confuse you. Nobody is born with an LGBT+ dictionary in their head!

 

Terms and Labels

 

Transgender

Somebody who does not identify as their gender assigned at birth.

Being transgender is not a choice. The term “transgender” has become more popular in modern communities, due to its linguistic focus on gender, and its inclusivity. Transgender communities include binary and non-binary people. The most important thing to remember about the term “transgender” is that it is an adjective, not a noun or a verb. For example, it is correct to say, “he is transgender”, rather than, “he is transgendered”. It is correct to say, “those people are transgender”, rather than, “those people are transgenders”.

Transsexual

A person who has altered, or wishes to alter, their sex through medical treatments.

Transsexuals are people who seek to align their physical sex with their gender identity. This term preceded "transgender", and some people still do identify as transsexual. However, as the term is linguistically confusing due to “homosexual” and “heterosexual” etc, it has somewhat fallen out of favour. It is not offensive, but should not be used unless someone identifies with it. Some transgender people may feel uncomfortable if labelled with this term, but transsexual-identifying people do still exist.

Cisgender

Somebody who identifies as their assigned gender at birth, AKA most men and women. "Cis" is pronounced like "sis".

This is a term used to differentiate the rest of the population from transgender people. Cisgender individuals do not identify as cisgender, per se. It is simply a way avoid phrases like "normal people and trans people", which alienates trans people and encourages bigotry. The etymology of "cis" relates to the concept "on the same side". So, when applied to gender, "cis" just means that a person's gender remains the same as what they were assigned at birth.

Sex

Categorising someone as male or female based on their sex chromosomes or reproductive organs.

Being transgender means that your internal sense of self (your gender) conflicts with your sex assigned at birth. Many transgender people seek hormonal and surgical interventions, in order to align their physical sex with their gender. Most people are born endosex, meaning their innate sex characteristics conform to medical and social norms around what constitutes male and female. Some people are born intersex.

Intersex

According to the IHRA, “Intersex people have innate sex characteristics that don’t fit medical and social norms for female or male bodies.”

Being intersex is separate from gender or sexual orientation. Some intersex people are also transgender, but most are not. Celeste is an intersex person who has Turner Syndrome, a condition in which they’re missing an X chromosome. While most people with Turner Syndrome just identify as female, Celeste identifies as non-binary, making them an intersex person who is also trans. To read a young person's perspective on their intersex experience, see this Minus18 article.

Sexual Orientation

Refers to someone’s enduring sexual attraction to others. Sexual attraction is separate from gender identity. This is important to understand.

Transgender people can, and do, identify with a number of different attraction labels. A person's transition is not motivated by their sexuality, but rather, their gender identity. A trans man who is exclusively attracted to other men may label himself gay. A trans woman who is exclusively attracted to men may identify as a straight woman. A non-binary person may identify with any label that suits them best. Any trans person could be asexual, meaning they do not experience sexual attraction. Sexual orientation is just as varied among cis people as it is among trans people.

AFAB, AMAB

AFAB means "assigned female at birth" and AMAB means "assigned male at birth".

These are shorthand acronyms that can help to describe a person's journey or needs. If a doctor was advocating on behalf of trans men and certain non-binary people, for example, it might be quicker to say, "AFAB trans people need access to gynaecological services". This approach is also very inclusive, and allows for many different people to be represented and included in important discussions.

Trans Man

A man who was assigned a female gender at birth, but experiences an internal sense of self that is male.

Trans men usually wish to be treated like any other man. Trans men will usually (if they are safe to do so) go by he/him pronouns in society. Many adopt masculine haircuts and clothing, in order to be socially recognised as male, and because they are more comfortable dressing that way, but not all trans men are masculine.

Trans Woman

A woman who was assigned a male gender at birth, but experiences an internal sense of self that is female.

Trans women usually wish to be treated like any other woman. Trans women will usually (if they are safe to do so) go by she/her pronouns in society. Many adopt feminine haircuts and clothing, in order to be socially recognised as female, and because they are more comfortable dressing that way, but not all trans women are feminine.

Non-Binary

Someone who does not identify as their gender assigned at birth, but also feels they aren’t a binary man or woman.

Male and female are binary genders; the opposite ends of a gender spectrum. Non-binary people feel that they do not fit into either of those binary boxes. Some identify as being somewhere on that spectrum, but some are disconnected from the spectrum entirely. Some feel androgynous, and experience a lack of gender. Some have a fluid sense of identity, and sometimes feel male, and sometimes female. Every non-binary person is different, and has a unique way of describing their gender experience. To read one non-binary person's perspective on gender, see this Minus18 article.

Gender Dysphoria

A term for distress about gender, often alleviated by being perceived differently, or altering one’s body.

A sense of distress, ranging from mild to severe, caused by a misalignment between a person's internal sense of self and their assigned gender at birth. Many non-binary people experience gender dysphoria, too. A trans man's gender dysphoria, for example, might be triggered by breasts growing during puberty, because his brain is telling him that he ought to have different characteristics. This is an example of physical/body dysphoria, which can become evident during puberty. Social dysphoria is the discomfort a person experiences when addressed by a name they do not identify with, or by incorrect pronouns.

Gender Euphoria

A sensation of happiness, comfort, and elation, caused by the alleviation of gender dysphoria and the affirmation of a person's true identity.

When addressed as "she" and "her", and perhaps by a new name, a trans woman may experience gender euphoria. Inversely, when dressing in a masculine manner and being received in society as a guy, a trans man may experience gender euphoria. People experience gender euphoria in different ways. Clothing may be very important to one trans person, but to another, is not very impactful. Every trans person takes unique steps to affirm themselves. Some trans men do not value masculinity, whereas others consider it an innate part of their identity.

Gender Non-Conforming

Gender non-conformity simply means not conforming to social gender roles and expectations. Gender non-conforming people can be trans, but they can also be cisgender.

Being gender non-conforming does not automatically make someone transgender. The key to being transgender is that you do not identify as your assigned gender at birth. A woman who performs as a drag king, or a man who enjoys flamboyant clothing, can be entirely cisgender while also being gender non-conforming. Some gender non-conforming people use that term to describe a gender experience that is non-normative, and actually identify as GNC, but others are simply cisgender.

Brotherboys and Sistergirls

Brotherboys and Sistergirls are members of First Nations communities who experience an identity outside of colonised ideas around gender.

According to Brotherboy Isaac Roberts, "Brotherboys are Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people who were assigned female at birth, but live our lives through our boy spirit. We take on male roles in community and society, and are accepted as such within our cultural world views. Therefore, Brotherboy encompasses both our gender identity and our cultural identity."​ Hayden Moon, in this article, explains the complexities of Brotherboy and Sistergirl identities.

 
A mature trans couple, a trans man and woman, standing together.

Every Trans Person is Different

 

No two transitions will be the same, and transitioning can start at any age. Some trans men, for example, are able to say "I am a boy" when they are still children. Some others are unable to describe their maleness until later in life, when they encounter individuals/communities that help them understand why they are having certain feelings. No two trans men are the same, and similarly, no two trans women are the same. No two non-binary people are the same.

Some trans men and women view their transitions as being entirely medical, and consider themselves “born in the wrong body”. Many transsexuals also feel this way. Some others, non-binary people included, have a more fluid and evolving understanding of their gender. One trans man may feel very comfortable fitting into male gender roles, and might hate feminine clothing because it causes him gender dysphoria. Another trans man may have no issue dressing up occasionally, or embracing flamboyant fashion in the same way many cis men do. There is no right or wrong way to be trans. There is no right or wrong way to be a woman, or a man.


Some trans people want to slot neatly into binary society, falling into the accepted role of man or woman, whereas others may not fit into that dynamic. It can take people years to figure out who they are, and in that time, they may try out different labels to see what works best.

Here are some videos featuring gender-diverse people, including those who identify as transgender, non-binary, Brotherboy, transsexual, and Two Spirit.

 
Never Too Late To Come Out As Transgender: Heartfelt Stories
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My Genderation

Never Too Late To Come Out As Transgender: Heartfelt Stories

A series of films about trans people's concerns about getting older and how they have navigated the NHS. This was made for the Trans Ageing And Care Project, to voice the stories and concerns of older trans people, a group who are finally able to grow old. We filmed with Dave and his partner Donna, with retired airline pilot Cat Burton, artist Annabelle and Fran, who no longer wishes to wait to live her life as a transgender woman. This project involved trans people every step of the way. Thanks to everyone involved. NOTE: Subtitles to be added in the next 5 days. Sorry for the delay. We launched a social media campaign called #GrowingOlderAsMe. The campaign highlights the hopes fears and thoughts that trans people are having about growing older as trans. Through working on this project, we have learned a great deal about some of the challenges facing older trans people. Many fear how they will be received by staff or other people living in care homes, and if their needs will be met. As Catherine Burton, a sixty-six year old retired pilot, said: “[...] transgender people might have needs that are not necessarily obvious to care workers. A trans woman that suddenly isn’t capable of looking after her facial hair in a way that she has grown accustomed to, or a trans woman that has to wear a wig, and then has to be seen by care workers without it, who may not perhaps take the greatest care of presenting them to the other people living in the home.” Other issues include assumptions care workers might have about their body parts, specific care that they might need due to having had surgery (or not), and the frightening thought of getting dementia and not remembering that they had physically and socially transitioned. This is a real fear for many and is already happening, as Jenny-Anne Bishop, one of the key players in the Trans Ageing and Care Project, said: “If I as an older trans person had to go into care because I was starting to get alzheimers, would they see my trans status as confusion? Or would I get to a point where I suddenly think: Why is my body like this? I am not supposed to be out.” My Genderation is an ongoing film project focusing on trans lives and trans experiences. All our content is created by trans people, about trans people, for a much wider audience. Currently run by Fox Fisher and Owl Fisher. Support us by donating to our patreon or through paypal! https://www.patreon.com/mygenderation paypal: https://mygenderation@gmail.com https://www.mygenderation.com https://www.facebook.com/mygenderation instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mygenderation twitter: https://www.twitter.com/mygenderation Fox and Owl: Personal youtube: https://www.youtube.com/foxandowl twitter: theFoxFisher & uglastefania https://www.foxfisher.com
An Interview With Jamison Green
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sexplanations

An Interview With Jamison Green

Jamison Green recently visited Missoula, Montana to speak at conference on transgender lives which meant I had the special opportunity to sit down with him on the red couch. This video is a excerpt from our time together. I was most impressed by his insights on trans healthcare and his commitment to increase awareness for the longterm safety of all genders. To learn more about James check out his website here: http://www.jamisongreen.com/ And if you'd like to follow other youtubers who discuss trans issues here are their channel links: https://www.youtube.com/ZJemptv https://www.youtube.com/skylarkeleven https://www.youtube.com/grishno https://www.youtube.com/TransDIYer https://www.youtube.com/loraxism https://www.youtube.com/xQUEERKIDx https://www.youtube.com/BentonSorensen https://www.youtube.com/GregoryGORGEOUS https://www.youtube.com/TheRealJazzBertie https://www.youtube.com/princessjoules And for those of you who requested information about the theories of sexual orientation, there's this site: http://borngay.procon.org/view.resource.php?resourceID=000019 Check out our social media numbers and stay curious with us: PATREON (1,174) : https://www.patreon.com/sexplanations TWITTER (6,368) : https://twitter.com/elleteedee TUMBLR (19,067) : https://www.tumblr.com/blog/tumblingdoe FACEBOOK (8,068) : https://www.facebook.com/sexplanations DFTBA : http://store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations MATTHEW GAYDOS (director+): https://www.youtube.com/user/MatthewGaydos @matthewgaydos
 
A drag queen with a purple wig and heavy makeup

Drag Performers: Not Always Trans

 

Drag queens (often men who dress in women’s clothes during performances) and drag kings (often women who dress in men’s clothes during performances) are not automatically transgender. Though crossdressing communities have an amount of overlap with transgender communities, crossdressing for the sake of enjoyment or art is not synonymous with an individual experiencing a persistent need to transition into another gender.


However, some transgender people participate in drag before they are able to come out, or as an expression of a gender identity they cannot affirm throughout the rest of their life. Gender is complicated, and there is no one right way to exist as a gender-diverse individual.


Some drag queens, for example, are transgender women. Some drag kings are transgender men, or masculine non-binary people, or butch lesbians. Some individuals who experience a fluid gender identity may enjoy the freedom of drag expression. Some people may choose not to label their gender at all.

Here are some videos featuring drag performers.